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to everything there is a season.

01/09/2025 11:36:46 AM

Jan9

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

Living in the northeastern part of the United States most of my life has afforded me the opportunity to enjoy the change in seasons. Growing up near the Jersey Shore meant frequenting Asbury Park. I might have met or seen Bruce Springsteen, but I wouldn’t know. I was never bored, and there was no need for additional amusements. You learned how to swim in the ocean, how to body surf, and how to handle rip tides....Read more...

l'shana tova?

12/31/2024 10:04:11 AM

Dec31

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

Would it surprise you to learn that an estimated 4 billion people utilize a lunar calendar
in some capacity? In addition to 15 million Jews, there are also 2 billion Asians and 1.9
Muslims. That is approximately half of the Earth’s population. What is it about the lunar
calendar that continues to be so appealing? Is it Tevye’s answer, “Because it’s a
tradition!”, or might there be more?...Read more...

can't we all just get along?

12/25/2024 11:09:52 AM

Dec25

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

I grew up in a primarily gentile community in New Jersey, with a handful of Jewish students in
my class. Yes, I did experience antisemitism, which I have both written and spoken about, but it
was not pervasive. There were the few who tossed pennies at me, daring me to pick them up,
because they had learned that Jews were cheap. I got into fights because I was Jewish. The
seminal moment for me was...Read more...

the best gift of all

12/19/2024 10:52:40 AM

Dec19

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

Many connect the celebration of Chanukah with the exchanging of gifts. It might surprise you to learn that gift-giving became a later addition to Chanukah, most likely starting in the United States, in imitation of Christmas. The proximity of both holidays, if not occurring on the same day as this year, made it inevitable that over time, customs from one crept into the other. That is not necessarily a bad thing, for...Read more...

How to celebrate chanukah

12/12/2024 09:44:19 AM

Dec12

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

We all know about lighting the Chanukah menorah during the evening of all eight days of Chanukah, but is that all there is to celebrating Chanukah? I’d like to suggest that there are many ways to do so beyond the lighting, which by itself is beautiful. Below is a short list of additional activities for your consideration:

Make lighting the Chanukah menorah (aka Chanukiyah) part of the evening celebration,...Read more...

ever grateful

12/05/2024 12:56:10 PM

Dec5

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

Sitting at the Thanksgiving meal, my heart was filled with gratitude.  That’s the not-so-secret gravy of Thanksgiving that transcends any religion yet flows through all Americans. The ability to gather with family and friends over a shared meal is something that all of us can do, and lends itself to the narrative of America as a melting pot. It is rather likely that many have certain traditions associated...Read more...

anything to be thankful for?

11/25/2024 02:13:22 PM

Nov25

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

It is very easy for us to reflect upon the news of the day, comment that there is nothing good happening in the world, and thus nothing to be thankful for this coming Thanksgiving. I would like to suggest that this is a rather narrow, myopic view of the world and our lives. Horses were given blinders so that any activity on the side of the road would not startle them, causing them to buck, panic, and endanger the...Read more...

does it ever get easier?

11/21/2024 02:52:51 PM

Nov21

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

There is an adage that says that time heals all wounds. I’m not convinced. It might not be the entire scab, but commemorating it is enough to make you re-live the pain. It doesn’t go away. You learn to live with it, integrate it into your being, and either develop skills to cope or hone the ones that you already possess in your toolbox.

Certainly, one of the challenges I...Read more...

Yet again

11/12/2024 03:23:04 PM

Nov12

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

I grew up with the mantra “Never Again”, the phrase readily and eagerly tossed as the response to the Holocaust. I firmly believed in that mantra. Then came 10.27. About a week and a half later, I had been invited to our communal Kristallnacht commemoration, which recalls the 48-hour state-sanctioned pogroms in 1938 that, according to some historians, marks the official beginning of the Holocaust. German police...Read more...

now What?

11/07/2024 10:49:44 AM

Nov7

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

There are those who are elated with the results of the election and those who are not. No matter your affinity, there is something that did not change: what God expects of us. Being Jewish starts from the first commandment, that we acknowledge and accept that there is one God, the same God who took our ancestors out of Egypt. At Mt. Sinai, they uttered the immortal words Naaseh V’nishmah,...Read more...

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