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a portrait of healing

08/09/2023 04:13:43 PM

Aug9

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

Much of my thoughts this year have been focused on after the trial, specifically to answer the question: How do we heal? Would it be comparable to the processes of the past four years and nine months? Would it be similar yet different? How do I start it? And ultimately, will we ever be fully healed?

As Judge Colville pronounced the sentence...Read more...

all you need is love

08/02/2023 09:31:56 PM

Aug2

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

There is a little known date in the Jewish calendar that most likely is overlooked by many in the Jewish world. The date is the 15th day of the month of Av, known in Hebrew as Tu B’Av, occurring this year on August 2. Why should it be of any concern? It is a day for love. It has been regrettably conflated with St. Valentine’s Day as the Jewish version, although thematically they are...Read more...

friends

07/27/2023 08:59:55 AM

Jul27

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

We have an expectation that anytime we gather with other people, the rules of civility reign. Kindness, compassion, warmth, hospitality and generosity of spirit should be ever-present. Should be has become the operative verb, because those expectations are not always fulfilled. Do you wonder if you have set the bar too high, that our standards of human behavior are relics from a bygone era?...Read more...

Preparation HHD

07/20/2023 07:32:14 AM

Jul20

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

I’ve been involved in the High Holy Day services since I was a boy soprano in my synagogue’s choir. Without coming across as arrogant, I’d like to think that at this point in my professional life, I’m somewhat familiar with the liturgy. Yet now is the time that Rabbis and Cantors begin their annual preparations, which in my case includes my davening, offering six sermons, and interesting English readings. There is a Midrash that tells...Read more...

spiritual nourishment

07/13/2023 12:15:56 PM

Jul13

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

I recently had the privilege of attending the Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs biennial convention, participating both as a Rabbi and Hazzan. I had been invited over the years, but the timing had not worked well until this year. There were several opportunities to teach as well as sing in the Saturday evening Cantorial concert, which is apparently an event widely anticipated by the attendees,...Read more...

Now What?

06/22/2023 04:17:42 PM

Jun22

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

We waited four years and eight months for one word, repeated sixty-three times loudly and clearly: guilty. While this might have created an opportunity for catharsis, sadly this is just the beginning. The past three weeks were incredibly painful for so many of us, and while this week offers a brief respite, the proceedings resume next week. This next phase, called the penalty phase, will be the time where the jury must determine if the crimes...Read more...

human kindness

06/14/2023 09:30:03 PM

Jun14

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

Kindness, especially from strangers, is not something that we are accustomed to receiving. Even though Blanche DuBois uttered the immortal words “I have always depended on the kindness of strangers” in Tennessee Williams “A Streetcar Named Desire”, that is most likely not the norm for most of us. While it is certainly a bit of a utopian dream to hope that one day kindness will rule...Read more...

the ministry of presence

06/07/2023 07:23:28 PM

Jun7

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

What is a friend? The more I thought about it the more challenging I found to be precise, but I will try. To me a friend is someone that you want in your life and that person desires the same. Now for the dictionary. The first definition is: a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard. That seems to be a rather good definition. Why do I raise it? Because a friend came...Read more...

I Want Shalom

06/01/2023 10:00:00 AM

Jun1

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

Finally. We’ve waited 4 ½ years, but now has our waiting turned to dread? Is it unusual or unreasonable to really want something to happen, but then when it happens you don’t want it? 

I will not be speaking nor writing about the trial while it is in progress, but rather will focus on our collective mental health and caring for each other. These...Read more...

Introducing Lily

05/25/2023 10:00:13 AM

May25

Rabbi Jeffrey Myers

It was 7:57PM Monday evening, and my wife and I were about to leave the Waiting Room. I said “Let’s wait another few minutes”. One minute later our son-in-law texted that we could come up to room 7.  We knocked on the door and a voice answered “You could come in”. We opened the door, moved aside the curtain, and amidst all of the activity, to our left on a special table being attended to by a nurse was our newly born first...Read more...

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